Being That Girl

I’ve always wanted to be that girl. You know, the one that seemingly has their life together. Where they have a solid routine, and their life, in all honesty, looks picture perfect. But does anyone genuinely have their life together?

Sometimes I feel like I can be that girl. I can get up in the morning and clean my room. I can go to the farmer’s market and take cute pictures. I can eat healthy foods and consistently work out. But then there are times where I fail at being that girl.

I work till I am exhausted. Then, I will lay in bed for hours on end. And I will treat my body like utter garbage. And I will tell myself that I will never be that girl.

But it’s taken me a while to realize that yes, you can be that girl, or that person, or the main character of your life. This past year has shown to make the most of what we have. So, if being that girl consists of eating a pint of ice cream while laying in bed and then the next day doing hot yoga, then do it. You’re still the main character of your life.

In reality, “that girl” does not exist. Instead, it’s an aesthetic made up by social media. But it’s fun to try and not to be taken seriously. So be that person you want to be.

Thanks for reading!



  1. Love love love this post, so relatable. Some days i feel like an absolute badass boss girl and others like an utter failure for nor getting time to work out. I needes this reminder. ❤️

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  2. I hope your shoulder feels better. There’s soo much of societal pressure to be “that girl” plus social media makes it worse, plastering fake ness in our minds. But over the years I have learnt that being me is going to be what I’ll have to stick with. 😂💕

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      • Absolutely right! Like a drug addiction 😅 I just created an Instagram account 2-3 days ago to see what all the hype is about. Will quit in a week. So far, nothing interesting.
        PS: Found your account and I’m following you now. Hope that’s okay. I’m only around temporarily anyway :)🤗

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